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M.L. Bull
Historical Fiction, Women's Fiction, Literary Fiction, Christian Fiction, Poetry
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Sep 2019
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- Born
1 November
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Author, Publisher, Entrepreneur, Artist, Pianist
About
Michaela L. Bull lives in North Carolina but is originally from Salisbury, Maryland on the Eastern shore where she was born and raised. She is the youngest of three daughters and an aunt to one intelligent nephew. Her passion for writing started during fifth grade in elementary school, and she has enjoyed it since then.
Presently, she writes Christian and women's fiction stories based on characters who make serious changes in their lives through faith and determination, which she prays will encourage and inspire readers to never lose hope through the adversities of life. She is also an occasional blogger who writes about former and present authors and poets of American Literature, commending both living writers and those who passed on for their skilled talented abilities and great accomplishments in the literary world.
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Don't blow out a candle before you light it.
M.L. BullBeing a writer has its pros and cons.
M.L. BullWriting isn't a hobby to me. It's a big part of who I am. If I don't write, I don't feel normal.
M.L. BullI write for others, but I'm my biggest fan.
M.L. BullThere are some advantages to not publishing.
M.L. BullI write what my characters say and how they feel based on their different jobs, personalities, experiences, thoughts, and feelings. I write what makes them laugh and what makes them cry; what they fear and what they love. It's not all sweet, and it's not all salty. It's realistic fiction . . . it's life.
M.L. BullLet the story do the talking.
M.L. BullThe best and oldest book ever written was the Bible. It was here before there was ink and paper.
M.L. BullWhen you write the harsh truth and reality of life, you may shed a few tears, or you may feel alone like nobody really cares, but write it anyway. God is on your side.
M.L. BullSome writers are valued while they are living. Others are valued long after they're dead.
M.L. BullSome stories entertain readers, and others inspire change. I don't know if mine will do both or neither, but I shall write as many as I can.
M.L. BullFor love, she had surrendered her dignity, her quality time with family, and her freedom of independence. She hadn’t looked at her situation as a serious domestic problem, but as she disassembled her engaged relationship, it all made sense to her now. She was an abused woman.
M.L. BullWhen he opened his eyes, beads of droplets were on the lens of his eyeglasses. He took off his glasses, wiped them with the hem of his button-down, short-sleeve shirt, and slipped them on again. It being only a week since her passing, the heartache of losing his wife was still there. For months he watched her long tiresome battle with cancer, staying beside her hospital bed for hours on end. He felt her pain of needle injections and the shame of her chemo stealing her hair.
M.L. BullNo matter how it's done, everything you learn can be applied to the craft of writing stories.
M.L. BullThose of you protesting for the good cause of justice and equality, y'all have my respect and support. But all of you whether black or white who are burning down buildings and cars, stealing goods, and acting like fools...GO HOME!!! Stop acting up to be seen on camera! Jump off the bandwagon of foolery and get aboard the train of dignity and civility. You're not helping the objective of the "true" protesters, you are contaminating their positive effects.
M.L. BullAnd so she wrote while others thought she did nothing.
M.L. BullWhen I write, I feel as though I'm chiseling at stone, building a sculpture.
M.L. BullI pray about my writing and for God to help me through the process of my stories. But, why not? He is the author of the best and oldest book ever written, planned in his mind even before there was ink and paper. The Bible.
M.L. BullOne of the great opportunities of being a writer is being a voice for the voiceless.
M.L. BullA caterpillar doesn't become a butterfly in one day. No more does a writer become a published author in one draft. Change is a gradual process, but it's better to start somewhere than nowhere.
M.L. Bull“Are we just here for coffee?†Ben said finally, breaking the silence. Hector snapped out of his muse and turned his eyes to the old man. “Oh, no, sir. I wanted to talk with you about something . . . or rather someone?†“And?†Ben raised his eyebrow and inclined his head. “And . . .†Hector replied in hesitation. He blinked faintly and let out a long breath. “Uh . . . I uh . . . wanted to talk to you about your daughter.†“Which one?†Ben joked. “I’ve got five of them.â€
M.L. BullYou can't expect a cow to meow.
M.L. BullMy heart is inditing a good matter: I speak of the things which I have made touching the king: my tongue is the pen of a ready writer.
Psalm 45:1Some people you genuinely like, but they have a certain side to them they're oblivious of which places you in an awkward predicament where you don't know whether to stick around or run away from them.
M.L. BullChoose your friends wisely. People change like the seasons.
M.L. BullHow you treat God now is how He'll treat you later. If you deny Him now, He'll deny you later. If you reject him now, He'll reject you later. If you ignore Him now, He'll ignore you later. If you curse Him now, He'll curse you later. If you acknowledge Him now, He'll acknowledge you later. If you bless Him now, He'll bless you later.
M.L. BullThe problem with holding your peace after moving on is how others perceive your indifference.
M.L. BullHonestly, half the time I don't know how to start a chapter, but somehow something comes together like a jigsaw puzzle.
M.L. BullThe book almost everyone is scared of reading.
M.L. BullFear not your own shadow. Behind every eclipse there is light of hope.
M.L. BullSometimes you will be too good for some people, and they don't know how to handle you. Sometimes you want to help and don't know if you can take it yourself. But that's life.
M.L. BullReality is never easy for anyone, but it's better than living in a lie and being caught off guard.
M.L. BullAnytime someone or something makes your mind feel like a tossing boat, it's time to jump ship.
M.L. BullDo something different for a change and don't always think about yourself. God made the world for more than one being.
M.L. BullMake wise choices. Whatever you do today can determine your tomorrow.
M.L. BullThe hardest goodbyes are to those who refuse to leave.
M.L. BullSometimes one can be so used to being on the top that they forget what it feels like to be at the bottom. But life has a way of changing circumstances.
M.L. BullMany of the best writers are quiet, unnoticed people.
M.L. BullA Word of Wisdom
with M.L. BullUnder certain conditions, depending on the situation sometimes it's okay to back away and give up.
M.L. Bull"A Friend Lost in Time"
M.L. BullWhen you know that you know, you don't have to say anything.
M.L. BullSometimes it's better to take the blame than to explain. What can you do with a person who doesn't tell the truth?
M.L. BullBefore you complain about someone else's conduct toward you, examine yourself. There could be a reason for it.
M.L. BullThere is being concerned for a good cause, and there is being nosy for a hidden agenda. Which one are you implementing?
M.L. BullIt's a crying shame, but sometimes you're a better friend to someone than they are to you. For some, you're nothing more than something to use, a source of supply for their own benefit.
M.L. BullYou are not someone else's cutout. Just because you may look to other people for help or advice doesn't mean they are entitled to your privacy or life.
M.L. BullTwo of the main types of people I cannot tolerate is a liar and a gossiper. A liar makes lies, and a gossiper spreads them.
M.L. BullWhenever a bad thing happens as a result of something you did, don't rehearse it. Instead, take it for a life lesson not to make that choice, go this route, or do that thing again.
M.L. BullGuard your heart and be careful who you allow to unlock it. He who holds the key can enter and destroy.
M.L. BullPeople are as unpredictable as the weather, having different thoughts, behaviors, personalities, and feelings. Save yourself the heartache and don't get too close to anyone.
M.L. BullBefore you get an applause, be the audience of your pursuits and dreams. A life spent waiting is a life spent wanting.
M.L. BullJust because you see someone's footprints doesn't mean they're still there. While you trace their trail before you, they could already be miles away.
M.L. BullIs it really worth it?
M.L. BullSomeone else's problem doesn't have to become your problem. If you can't handle a person or situation, learn to walk away for your own mental well-being.
M.L. BullMoney does not define one's character.
M.L. BullIsaiah’s eyes went round, staring at the paper. After discovering the man didn’t have insurance, the only thing that came to his mind was one word. Scammer. He massaged his brow and chuckled at the ridiculous amounts. “You’re requesting for an eighty percent down payment? If that isn’t steep, my name’s Charlie Brown.â€
M.L. BullIf you don't know the whole story of someone or a situation, don't make a conclusion based on the words of another. If you can, find out the truth for yourself.
M.L. BullSocial media doesn't always define who you are. Don't worry what negative things strangers say about you online. You don't know these people and they don't know you.
M.L. BullA friend who always has to have you beneath them is a friend you don't need them.
M.L. BullLove whether for a romantic partner or just a friend is not about what only YOU can get out of it. Many people want love, but when it comes to turning the tables, they don't want to act from the other end. They just always want to be the one with their arms open, but never the one giving the hug. They want to be the one getting sympathy, but not the one showing empathy. They want to be waited upon, but never the one having patience and doing the waiting. They want to be heard, but never the one truly listening.
M.L. BullOne who loves tells the truth, even if it hurts.
M.L. BullEmotional intelligence is just as important as mental intelligence. If you don't know who you are or how you feel, then you won't be able to relate to other people's feelings either.
M.L. BullDo you want to help me because you truly care as a friend, or just to boost your own ego? As an INFJ, I can tell the difference between people.
M.L. BullGod is the essence of living. Without him, you don't have a life.
M.L. BullAll I'm saying is, just be honest. Don't lie to boost your ego or portray somebody that you're not because of fear of what others will think about you. As an INFJ, I can respect and maybe give someone a second chance who's honest about themselves, shortcomings, struggles, ailments, or whatever they've done. We've all got problems anyway. Unfortunately, being honest is asking too much for most, which makes it harder to trust people.
M.L. BullYour are not a bad person if you feel the need to protect your thoughts and emotions from someone. People have different emotional capacities and everyone doesn't have the ability to be honest about themselves to others, have your best interest at heart, or will look out for your well-being. Therefore, you have to look out for yourself. It's not that you're selfish or unloving toward other people..."
M.L. BullIt would solve and eliminate a lot of problems if more people were honest in who they really are. What kind of person are you? Do you feel the need to hide your true self? What makes you tick? How high is your self-esteem? Do have any physical or mental conditions you're ashamed of that affect how you function each day? If so, what can others do to understand you better? etc.
M.L. BullThe truth doesn't help you if you don't want to change.
M.L. BullBeing kind is free of charge. Say hello, smile and wave, lend a friend a helping hand, or simply ask, "How are you doing?"
M.L. BullJealousy, insecurity, and manipulation are three sinkholes that collapse the bridge of friendship. They will never hold it up.
M.L. BullGod has all the answers to your questions, if you're willing to hear him.
M.L. BullIf something tragic happened in your past life, don't let it control or define you. Rise above the dirt and ashes. You are a diamond in the rough. Let God polish your heart to perfection.
M.L. BullThe only problems with changing for the better is fear of the unknown and having to give up one's old ways.
M.L. BullTrying to outrun your fears is like running on a treadmill. You stay in the same spot and never get anywhere. How can anyone help you, if you don't even admit you have a problem? To get help you must first acknowledge you need it, otherwise you'll be running on the machine forever.
M.L. BullSilence is the best response to irrelevance.
M.L. BullLearn to uplift yourself. Don't always rely on someone to raise your self-esteem or make your feel good within. Be humble, but confidence and believe in yourself, your smarts, and your abilities. What happens if that person gets sick or dies? You won't know how to survive.
M.L. BullNever place the power of your self-worth in the hands of another person. Your value isn't based on the thoughts, words, or feelings of someone else, not even your parents. You are loved by God and determine your own worth. No one can take your dignity, but you.
M.L. BullGive yourself a break. It is hard to show love, if you weren't given it.
M.L. BullWhen one hears the Truth of God, it's not like hearing anything else and you're never the same person again. Because what you heard will always be in the back of your mind, even if you try to live your normal life. But overall it's a good thing and God's way of showing mercy toward you, giving you the know-how to be right and a chance to get ready before the great day of His return.
M.L. BullJust because you want to be a great writer doesn't mean you have to be obsessed over it. You can be a successful writer and have a decent, happy life outside of the craft at the same time.
M.L. BullBe practical. Your writing isn't for everyone.
M.L. BullIf there is anyone I could inspire and have a positive influence on with my writing to change their lives, I'd want it to be my family. I might not never create a good impact with my books on anyone else not related to me, but at least let my family better themselves.
M.L. BullOne's perception of you doesn't always determine who you are.
M.L. BullHappy New Year!
M.L. BullA new year fulfills hopes and grants surprises.
M.L. BullI don't write to scare anyone, though it is scary sometimes. I write what I believe in, what I've been taught, and what I know to be true. I write the truth, to get people to think and consider what they never thought to consider and inspire them to have faith. Truth does so many things. It brings to light and hurts, but it also heals and sets free. A bittersweet recipe.
M.L. BullFriendship, admiration of someone, and fear of being alone aren't good reasons to strive and live for God. It has to be personal. If it's not personal, you won't endure and will give up the minute the first pain comes your way. Or if whoever you're close with quits, you will follow him or her on the sideline. Salvation is a marathon of runners, and only the determined and devoted will win the race.
M.L. BullLife is filled with tests and challenges. If you can't endure the small ones, you won't be equipped to handle the large ones. Change your mindset. Pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Accept differences. Mend hearts and move on.
M.L. BullEducate to elevate, not to deflate.
M.L. BullInsecurity and fear create a toxic chemical reaction called Jealousy.
M.L. BullThe greater the struggle, the greater the victory.
M.L. BullIt's hard for someone to understand what you're saying when they take practically everything in life from one perspective. They have a one-track mind and cannot see the broader picture of things.
M.L. BullDon't bother explaining what one doesn't understand. Save your breath.
M.L. BullDon't use your disorder or condition as an excuse for others to pity you. Learn to adapt to changes and build healthier relationships with people.
M.L. BullBeing a loner isn't always bad. At least, you don't have to worry about someone getting jealous of you meeting another person.
M.L. BullIn order for anyone to see and understand your perspective, they have to stop always looking at everything from theirs.
M.L. BullCloseness to someone can be good or bad; it can sprout flowers of friendship, trust, and compassion, or can it overgrow vines of jealousy, fear, and possession. Don't let kindness toward you become a weed. Allow your relationships with other people to grow and sprout out; don't over tend them.
M.L. BullDon't be afraid of losing materialistic things. Everything temporal can be replaced.
M.L. BullThe greatest gifts you can give yourself are love and respect, because then and only then you can show it to others.
M.L. BullYou can't always run, hide, or take the easy way out. Many times, you have to turn around and walk uphill.
M.L. BullThere's a big difference between being alone and being lonely. And the one thing I ain't is lonely.
Ja'Net Dubois as Willona Woods, Good Times (1974-1980)If you're a person who has a mental disorder or condition that affects your behavior and there's someone who is a good friend and supports you, even though you do nothing to emotionally support them, you really should cherish that person. They don't have to stay.
M.L. BullWhen someone wants to try to arouse a reaction out of you, be a horse with blinders.
M.L. BullI kept my guard up for a reason. Thanks, for reminding me why.
M.L. BullKindness doesn't always equal friendship.
M.L. BullI am a pen in the Lord's hand.
M.L. BullHelping others should be out of the kindness of your heart or to do the right thing, not to gain control, significance, or validation.
M.L. BullFinding faults in others they perceive as golden is some people's way of fulfilling their need of having control and forming their own sense of significance and validation.
M.L. BullIf someone still loves you, remains your friend, or just is kind and stays by your side who you've belittled, mocked, abused, manipulated, criticized, disregarded the emotions and situations of, taken for granted, misused, or taken advantage of, they deserve your integrity and respect. They don't have to keep being loyal and stick around. They can leave at any time.
M.L. BullA wound cannot heal just slapping a Band-Aid on it. It'll only keep getting infected and never get better. Rather, one must tend to it with care.
M.L. BullYou can't help everybody, but you can help somebody.
M.L. BullMany times we are our own hindrance to becoming a well-rounded, better person.
M.L. BullWhen it's all said and done, there comes a point in your life where you don't know what else to say, except, "I wish you well."
M.L. BullPlacing too much expectation on yourself can become a bad thing, especially when we're so used to always fulfilling a certain role in our lives or being heavily dependent on it to define who we are. We're used to winning and getting praise for our skills, talents, and achievements. We want to always feel on the top, to the point we can't handle being on the bottom. We lose touch with our reality and find it hard to accept defeat. But we are not our medals or awards. They are only things we are given.
M.L. BullCreate new tactics. Smile like magic. Be a light and shine bright. Be a star in the dark night. From the poem "Trust God" by M. L. Bull
M.L. BullGenuine kindness and patience are priceless.
M.L. BullThe answers to our questions often relies within ourselves. The problem is our capacity to be honest about who and what we are. If we reach this milestone, we have the ability to live fulfilling lives.
M.L. BullJust because someone tells or mentions something to you about their writing process or techniques doesn't mean you have to follow everything they say. Do what you think is best for your story.
M.L. BullI don't want to be anyone's therapist. I've got my own problems to worry about. Whatever quotes I say is to bring awareness or to help someone who's in a state of need.
M.L. BullI always try to inspire others not to make myself look good or have control over them, but to motivate, bring awareness, encourage, or help them to build their confident, independence, and their own unique sense of individuality. That's what helping others is all about, creating a continual chain reaction for the betterment of self and others.
M.L. BullI don't believe in looking down on others, including those with mental disorders. Even those of us who don't suffer mental breakdowns sometimes.
M.L. BullWriters are like fingerprints. They might write about similar things, but they have their own unique style of telling them.
M.L. BullTrusting someone who you know lied to you isn't a walk in the park, especially if they've done many negative things to you. It makes you skeptical to the point you don't know what to think of them anymore and hard to believe anything they say.
M.L. BullLet other people think what they want. Don't let others control your emotions. If you know you're not something, just forget and ignore it.
M.L. BullEven if it's just a grocery list, my hands will write something before the day's over.
M.L. BullIf you can't write a paragraph, then write a sentence. If you can't write a sentence, then write three words: I got this!
M.L. BullGod is the ultimate judge. Most people rely and depend more on other people they admire or fancy to give them a sense of validation without asking God how He feels or thinks about things. What He says in his Word matters more than mankind's opinions.
M.L. BullOne of the troubles with striving to live a holy life is when people look at you as if everything you believe is your personal opinion. No, I'm just standing up for the Truth that was already written because it's right and I want to be saved. If it were up to only me, I wouldn't care what you do.
M.L. BullCustomary traditions are things that are learned and passed on, but rarely questioned.
M.L. BullKeep reading. Keep researching. Keep writing.
M.L. BullRegulating one's emotions begins with the mind. However you think is what you'll feel.
M.L. BullWhen one is able to come to terms with reality, life gets a little easier.
M.L. BullIf your normal life feels uncomfortable and interrupted, something ain't right, and it's likely God showing you mercy by getting your attention. It's not a coincidence.
M.L. BullWe're not robots. We're living, breathing beings with a heart, soul, and feelings. It's okay to be vulnerable or cry if you need to.
M.L. BullTime is precious and constantly moving, so always use it wisely. Every day that goes by is a day you can't gain back.
M.L. BullThose who only do for others to gain back have not learned the meaning of love.
M.L. BullWhatever you do for someone, let it primarily be out of the goodwill of your heart and not always because you expect something back from that person. Otherwise, keep your "nice" favors to yourself. Stipulations and kindness are like oil and water— they don't mix.
M.L. BullBe happy for yourself, even if others aren't happy for you.
M.L. BullOne cannot give what they have never been given or taught to have themselves.
M.L. BullIf you can't even say "Thank You" or "You're Welcome" every now and then, you need serious help.
M.L. BullYou can always strive to be better than how you were treated by someone yourself. One's past is no excuse to remain incompetent about anything.
M.L. BullIf you're a writer who needs writing inspiration or ideas, watch television. It's loaded with them.
M.L. BullYour time and energy are two of your most important sources. Use them on the people and things that make you happiest.
M.L. Bull"Sometimes people disappoint you, and you just have to let it go and love'em anyway."
M.L. BullBetter to be a hurricane than a dry desert.
M.L. BullDon't handicap yourself or stunt your growth. If you can be better in your life than how and what you are, do better.
M.L. BullWhether spiritually or naturally, fear, hate, and disbelief are three of life's most limiting emotions that hold one back from progress, change, and happiness.
M.L. BullHow parents raise their children is very impactful and important. Whatever bad knowledge they teach them can scar them for life.
M.L. BullHe wanted to speak again—to call for help, his thoughts and memories slipping away like sand flowing through an hourglass.
Eva's PromiseIf it's not you, don't worry about it. It's that simple.
M.L. BullI don't have to be like you, and you don't have to be like me. End of story.
M.L. BullChildren are like houses and plants. They must be well-furnished and nurtured to last and survive. How parents raise them is influential, effective, and very important. Whether it's good or bad, whatever seeds they plant in their minds and hearts will grow and sprout into their adulthood.
M.L. BullIf someone wise has a word or knows something that can elevate your complete well-being, don't be so quick to judge or criticize it. Wait to get a proper understanding.
M.L. BullFind the silver linings in clouds of life's darkest moments. Whatever bad experiences you go through, turn it around and see what good can come from it to sustain your sanity and wellbeing.
M.L. BullLife as she knew it would never be the same, and if faced with the worst, she wondered how she could live without Andre’s presence.
M.L. BullOne of the saddest things is caring about someone and wanting to help them, but not being able to do anything.
M.L. BullWho are you? He didn’t recognize her or see many people since he first opened his eyes, but she was the most gorgeous person he’d seen yet, her olive countenance bright and beautiful like the shining sun.
M.L. BullInsight is a valuable asset that keeps one from misinterpreting their perception of people and things in the wrong matter. It allows one to think clearly and realize the underlying causes of certain words or actions instead of overreacting about situations one doesn't fully understand.
M.L. BullHonesty is a simple thing, but can help resolve a lot of problems and build a sense of understanding for people of why things are the way they are.
M.L. BullFun, games, and laughter can exist with one's adulthood at the same time. One just has to balance them out with maturity, independence, and responsibility. Anyone who thinks they can't coexist hasn't ever been a kid.
M.L. BullBe the captain of your own ship. Venture out and sail the seas.
M.L. BullSome people are stubborn, too much to handle, and you'll never get through to them. They don't do anything, except hurt you, use you, waste your time, or drain your energy. Just let them be.
M.L. BullPeace and best wishes I give unto you, goodbye, dear friend, I bid you adieu.
M.L. BullNow it was as if the pivotal chapters of their friendship never existed. They were strangers who shared a framed certificate nailed on the wall, and in heart-wrenching silence lived in the same house.
M.L. BullThe pace of the writer is not important. What's important is the quality of the book.
M.L. BullOne of the most hurtful and damaging experiences is being there, encouraging, and caring about someone who cares nothing about you.
M.L. BullOnce the damage has been done, it's hard to believe anything nice one might try to do or say.
M.L. BullBrokenness takes time to mend and heal, but it's possible. Accept and learn from your past mistakes, failures, or heartbreaks and rearrange the broken pieces into a beautiful mosaic.
M.L. BullWhen you think about and remember eternity, whatever bad, mean, or evil things people strike you with―whether it's something big or small―it helps to soften the blows, knowing God sees everything; and in due time, if they don't ever repent and get themselves together, they will pay the price for it.
M.L. BullEvery season has its own designated time just as people who strive for goals and aspirations. Be patient, learn, invest, grow, and watch your dreams unfold.
M.L. BullI can respect someone who tells the truth about themselves, their deception, or their bad habits not in a manipulative way to make others feel sorry, but just to be honest. I mean, even those of us striving in the Truth of God make mistakes sometimes, but the difference is we work toward overcoming our shortcomings. If you're not right, set yourself free, just say so, and make the necessary adjustments. At some point, one must look in the mirror, grow up, and take responsibility for their words and actions.
M.L. BullIf people won't listen to verbal advice, maybe putting it in an interesting story will help them.
M.L. BullWe are perfect imperfections. It's so freeing just to be honest and say I'm not perfect, I've got some issues, or I've got flaws because then the pressure's off and you can be real with yourself and do something about it instead of pretending you have yourself altogether.
M.L. BullWe are perfect imperfections created by a perfect God. It's so freeing just to be honest and say I'm not perfect, I've got some issues, or I've got flaws because then the pressure's off and you can be real with yourself and do something about it instead of lying, pretending you're somebody than you're not, and like you have yourself completely altogether.
M.L. BullKindness is a good virtue to have, but even it has its downside for certain people. Sometimes kindness doesn't help because it limits one's self-growth and getting them to see themselves for who they are. For those who have a sense of entitlement and are used to always getting their way all the time, you have to resort to other methods so as not to accept their behavior. Love isn't always soft and passive, but it's also telling someone the harsh truth to snap out of their make-believe fantasies and face reality.
M.L. BullThank you is one of the most basic, simple two-word phrases, but one that holds a lot of meaning. Whether family or friends, it's amazing how many times so few people say it. Show gratitude for the things in your life and what others do for you by saying, "Thank you." The very things and people you take for granted one day may no longer be there.
M.L. BullSometimes writers are camouflaged creatures. They may write about stories they dislike, things that scare or make them uncomfortable, or subjects and incidents that don't pertain to them, but it simply gets done for the sake of other people, for the sake of their characters.
M.L. BullI'm not mad. I'm not sad. I'm just minding my own business.
M.L. BullChange comes by choice. It doesn't matter how much you believe in someone. If he or she isn't motivated to improve themselves or doesn't want to, I'm sorry to say you're wasting your time.
M.L. BullIf you can't be a good friend to yourself, then you can't be one to anyone else.
M.L. BullAsk yourself: Would you trust yourself? If your answer is no, then why expect anyone else to trust you?
M.L. BullThe odds of finding a true friend are next to none, but thank the Lord that God is one.
M.L. BullIf a friend can stay loyal and trustworthy in your presence and in your absence 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year, again and again, they're a true friend. Keep them close. They're rare.
M.L. BullSome people's way of having control in their own life is by controlling others.
M.L. BullLoving others does not mean you have to keep tolerating anyone's negative behavior that you don't deserve. You can love people from a distance. There is a fine line between love and acceptance, and enabling someone to abuse or mistreat you is not love―it's stupidity.
M.L. BullOne thing about living in Holiness, you become a target. Just because the Devil knows you're walking in the right direction, he can deliberately make someone hate you or mistreat you without them knowing why themselves. They can treat everyone else fine, but when it comes to you, just because of your faith, it's a different story.
M.L. BullWhen it comes to psychopaths, sociopaths, narcissists, and other people with mental or personality disorders, boundaries are the only way to cope and get along with these people. If they aren't willing to cooperate to create healthier relationships, then it's time to go. Don't put your head on the chopping block.
M.L. BullYou know you're a true friend when you be one to someone even though it's not really convenient for you.
M.L. BullWhen you're a kind person who suffers bad experiences with people, sometimes it can make you not want to be nice to anyone else because you think, "What does it give you?" But don't let bad apples spoil your bunch. Be good. Stay good. Do good.
M.L. BullOne may be surprised what will happen if you get to yourself and humbly and sincerely pray to God from the depths of your heart.
M.L. BullEveryone's emotional capacity isn't the same for various reasons. Be careful who you invest your comfort, kindness, and emotional support.
M.L. BullReal friends care about "you" and how they can benefit you. Fake friends care about "yours" and how you can benefit them.
M.L. BullFirst, prove to yourself that you're changing for the better. Don't worry about anybody else. Others will follow afterward. Change for YOU, be sincere, and fake nothing to earn anyone or anything. If it's not for you, it won't be before long that you'll relapse into the same old habits again.
M.L. BullSome people can be unloving, but no one is unlovable.
M.L. BullKindness to all, friendship to few.
African ProverbYou only get one life to live. Don't be afraid to get some fresh air every now and then, explore, try new things, meet people, have fun. The more you experience, the more you know and the wiser you become.
M.L. BullYou don't have to do or say everything that comes to your mind. There are such things called choices.
M.L. BullWhen you try to help or guide someone in the right direction and they don't want to listen or take heed, they're not hurting you. They're hurting themselves.
M.L. BullSome people have lived in a fantasy tale so long that it's become their reality. They don't know who to cope with real people, real emotions, and real situations. So whenever they're faced with something overbearing to them, they take the easy way out and always revert to or stay in their safe, little world.
M.L. BullChange takes time. A flower doesn't bloom as soon as you plant the seed. It gradually grows and must be nurtured and mature before it fully develops. Be patient with yourself, but also be willing to learn and improve. The more accustomed you get to something, the easier and more normal it becomes and not so much like a "burden" anymore, especially when it's done from your heart.
M.L. BullSelf-motivation is the key to true change. If you don't care or just aren't determined to improve yourself for yourself, it doesn't matter what advice anybody else says. Nothing about you will get better. At some point, one has to get tired of their own bad habits and wrong ways. Then you can and will try to make a difference.
M.L. BullBe careful how you behave and treat others. Sometimes God allows certain things to happen or not go right in your life to humble you and teach you a lesson that you're not in control as much as you thought.
M.L. BullFor me, writing is a literary craft, but also a creative experiment. With some of my descriptions, I like to "think out of the box" and make symbolic comparisons of two common things that match or don't usually go together.
M.L. BullLosing the fear of vulnerability and being accustomed to being alone gives you freedom and takes power and control away from others because you worry less about what people think of you. Instead, you obtain the mindset of, "Here I am. This is me. Take it or leave it."
M.L. BullA fall into a ditch makes you wiser.
Chinese ProverbYeah, you're a piece of work. But I am too.
M.L. Bull"You know, some writers write for money, in hopes of fame, or to entertain and give readers a cool adventure, and there's nothing wrong with that. But I hope to inspire or help someone with the stories, poems, and other things I write. If not, I really don't feel like I've accomplished anything."
M.L. BullGod doesn't force anyone to serve Him. He gives everyone free will, but he also knows those who will or won't be saved. Though the faith of Holiness is tough, you suffer for Christ's sake, and you don't always have good days, I count it a great privilege to be one of the few chosen and given a chance to escape punishment. Everybody isn't called or chosen, or will find the narrow, strait pathway to eternal peace.
M.L. BullIf Jesus can heal lunatics and people possessed by evil spirits in the Bible, there isn't a person living who can't recover from their present condition, if they are really sincere, pray earnestly, believe, and want to get better. I just don't believe that.
M.L. BullI respect genuine people. Even if what they reveal isn't a pretty sight, at least it's honest and true. We can always make necessary adjustments afterward.
M.L. BullPrayer's needed for today, No time for gossip or foul play, No time to fret or to dismay, What others think of me or say.
M.L. BullThough we've laughed and been close, you must not look to me the most, I am not the ruler of your kingdom, I am not the shadow of your being, I am a friend of enemies.
M.L. BullDon't be so desperate to thrive that you die. You don't have to have a bad character to be somebody, succeed, or get ahead in life. The world is dark enough as it is. Choose to be the better person and do what's right. Be the light.
M.L. BullCompassion is the greatest form of love because it can be shown toward anybody. A spouse, a family member, a co-worker, a friend, a stranger--anyone. Because it can be the most influential and become the most painful, I'm persuaded it should be cautiously given out so as not to offend, get hurt, or be taken for granted.
M.L. BullFor some people, the only thing that gives you value to them is what you have, but if it wasn't for that, they'd drop you like a hotcake. They don't care about you as being a living, breathing person because to them you're just an asset.
M.L. BullA lot of problems and situations could be resolved, but if only one person gets involved, nothing can be solved.
M.L. BullDon't put your own pieces to a puzzle when you don't know what the picture looks like. You might be wrong and not actually seeing what you think you're seeing, or hearing what you think you're hearing.
M.L. BullSometimes you have to do what you don't want to do to get where you want to go because there's just no other choice.
M.L. BullSome situations, relationships, and friendships are meant to stay broken because only one person is exerting the effort to fix it. But if them being unrepaired brings peace, then it's just better that way.
M.L. BullAn ugly picture can be erased. It doesn't have to stay the same.
M.L. BullWhen the odds strike against you, keep fighting and don't give up.
M.L. BullPeople don't always need a nice favor or advice, but the simplest things can make all the difference.
M.L. BullYour worth doesn't rest on how much you can do for somebody else, and neither does mine.
M.L. BullWe introverts can think too much at times and put ourselves in a mental trap, but we must remember that sometimes life requires the most human choice and not the most logical choice.
M.L. BullHelping people doesn't mean they should always stay dependent on you for everything, but it also doesn't they won't get help from you again either. If you truly mean to help others develop their skills and reach their full potential, then allow them to venture out into endless possibilities, find themselves, and learn new ways of doing things.
M.L. BullWhen it comes to living everyday life, interacting with different people, and finding out the meanings thereof, balance is key. Sort out your choices, thoughts, feelings, and opinions in the scale of decisions to decipher what's right or wrong and level out your mental equilibrium.
M.L. Bull"Write much, share little."
M.L. Bull"It takes strength and integrity to treat someone in a kind, empathetic, and thoughtful manner who never treats you the same in return."
M.L. BullA person who tries to be a good friend to you or lend a helping hand isn't there to suffer because of your misfortune or for you to take advantage of them. He or she is there to pull you up on your own feet.
M.L. BullWhere there is an emotional imbalance in friendship, one gets tired of getting the shorter end of the stick.
M.L. BullMany times we miss out on golden opportunities because of our unwillingness to sacrifice and we become our biggest hindrance.
M.L. BullSometimes silence hurts more than one's harsh words because it shows that one doesn't care.
M.L. BullLife's storms of disappointments can dim your sunshine, but don't stay in the darkness. Smile and let heaven's ray of light be your joy.
M.L. BullWhy is the hardest question for most people to answer.
M.L. BullStop placing expectations on people who can't deliver them. It only leads to heartache.
M.L. BullLet go of the whys and worries in your mind. Forgive yourself for the blunders you made, the regrets you reaped, the things you can't control, and the questions you'll never resolve. Your past is called the past for a reason.
M.L. BullThere is nothing wrong with enjoying your own company.
M.L. BullRemember me with smiles and laughter, for that's the way I'll remember you all. If you can only remember me with tears, then don't remember me at all.
Patricia Neal as Juila Sandersson, Little House on the Prairie (1974-1983)Just focus on yourself. You don't have to prove anything to anyone else.
M.L. BullNo matter what protect your space, energy, and mental health. There's no greater person to look out for than yourself.
M.L. BullOthers might think I'm self destructing, but they don't know I'm quietly building myself up. You can't tell everybody your goals and visions for yourself or what you're doing. But I'll step in the spotlight when I'm ready and not before.
M.L. BullI'm just a lover of peace and harmony.
M.L. BullIf a person refuses to acknowledge their reflection in the mirror of reality, you're resolving nothing by explaining to them their ways.
M.L. BullThere is a difference between healthy conflict and unhealthy conflict. One leads to a solution, the other causes confusion.
M.L. BullConflict has its place when it's healthy. There is a difference between healthy conflict and unhealthy conflict. One has mutual communication, a fair exchange, and leads to a solution. The other has a one-sided apology, never really resolves anything, and causes confusion.
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